A FRIEND AWARD

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I got another award from my friend mommy gen. Thank you mom gen for opening your arms and welcoming me in your sphere of friends. I value friendship and guard it fiercely. I consider myself a good, loyal,trustworthy and funny friend. Most people think I'm a meanie but once you get to know me you will see that outside that mean hard outer looking shell lurks a very soft jelly fish afraid to be hurt. I am giving this award to the following :

my sister : insanely chay
Jacy : reveries of jacy
jenneth : sweet haven
rachel : a vantage point of a lady
adin : mommy's gossip corner
cecile : kitchen the heart of our home
eden : moments to remember

FindHub IT ALL

Are you one of those who go online a lot to search for something? Ralph is one of those who depends on a Search Engines to find what he is looking for. And 7 out of 10 he finds what he wants. He complains about not getting the results he wants and ends up getting frustrated for the amount of time he spends looking. Ralph would say why hasn't anybody come up with a search engine that does everything from travel, videos, dictionary and everything. Well hun, FindHub is the newest search engine that does it all. Don't be a slave to the regular search engine that you have now, switch over your homepage I know I am.

MY STATUS

Finally after two years of waiting and putting off my Adjustment of Status for very legitimate reasons i am finally going to have my biometrics tomorrow. My appointment is at Dover at 9:00 am in the morning. Ralph had to take the day off to drive me there and were gonna have to drop of Kayla at her friends house shortly before 7:30 am so she will walk with them to the bus stop. I already told Kayla that she will have to walk with them to the bus stop in the morning so i could get my I.D. and she bought it. I told her that daddy had to drive me since i don't know how to drive but when i get my Status done ill finally be able to learn driving and get a licence. And i could take her and baby sister out to the mall. I'm excited about tomorrow, the only thing is i have to wake up earlier than usual to get ready and both girls ready. Wish me luck tomorrow.

QUICK AND EASY PAYDAY LOANS

In this trying economic times we all do our share to stretch a buck as much as we can. Its not only America that is going through a recession its all over the world. People are loosing their jobs, businesses and homes. Our family is not exception to the hardship that all people are going through. We just have to find a way to help make ends meet, but there are still times you need money for important things. That when Payday Loans can be another alternative to help until the next pay check comes in. Due to Ralph's previous divorce he was not able to maintain a good credit score and if fact his score is poor. With a good Payday Loans Mania they don't even need to check on your credit, all they need is basic information and you can easily get a loan to tide you over. So, if your in a bind and need cash, check them I'm sure you'll get approved.

CHIT CHAT WITH MAMA

I miss my mom so much and i talk to her as much as i can. Now, I'm still talking to my mom online right now via the voice chat. She was telling me about what happened to her while she was at her Aunt's funeral. Most people admire my mom not just for her personality but also for her beauty. My mom is on the heavy side but you can never deny that she is beautiful fat or thin. She was telling me how her past friends were drilling her about her life, her looks, her marriage and everything. People tend to be envious of other people's life and would want to make them seem like they have a better life than hers. I miss my mom since she is such good person and her friends love her so much. I want to protect my mom and shower her with so much love, material things and many more. It's just to bad that I'm not rich or else my mom would be living like a queen, a position which she deserves. I love you mama and don't worry about what other people will say, you are beautiful, sexy and wonderful.

A MATE FOR LIFE

Finding true love takes time, effort, honesty and of course your whole self. My sister just did a recent post about Internet romance if it works or not. I am glad to announce that it does work and my marriage is proof of that. Among my friends I was the only one who didn't have a boyfriend. I was not bad looking but I guess it just wasn't the right time and the right place for me to meet that special someone in my life. Just as I was about to give up on love and enjoy blessed singleness I met Ralph. It couldn't have been more perfect, he was literally the answer to all my prayers. Finding the right Internet Dating Site is also a big factor to finding the right person just for you. Since I'm happily married now, I went on to the passion search to look for a soul mate for my sister. Its different from any other site I have ever been and believe me I have been to many online dating sites. This one is way fast and user friendly. I have tried signing up not for me but someone for my older sister. Searching is a breeze. They can even narrow down the place where you want to meet someone from their country to their city. That's just incredible. They will also match you to someone who has the same personality and likes as you do. Unlike most dating site in Passion Search you can even see who is on cam and who is not so for single men and ladies out there who wants to meet that one special person in there life give this online dating site a chance and for sure you will find a mate for life

WORDLESS WEDNESDAY

THINKING AHEAD, PROTECT A LIFE

The conception of a child is always a miracle. From this tiny cell will divide into pieces and later one form into one single perfect human being. Its no secret that we have been trying for another baby to add to our family. Our youngest is already 16 months old and it would be great if they would only have a 2 years gap in between. On the other hand Ralph's nephew is expecting his first baby boy this coming August. Andrew has gone so much over the past year and finally has his life back on track. He has more to look forward to now that his going to be a dad. He should think about the future of the baby by looking into cord blood banking with Cryo Cell International. Its a safety net for his children to come. A baby's umbilical cord is rich in stem cells that have been proven to help cure a lot of diseases. Andrew's girlfriend Wendy has an older daughter who is 8 years old. Opting to store the coming baby's stem cells could one day save his sister's life and even his own parents. Its a miracle to give birth to a baby and it would be another miracle to save another. If you are like Ralph's nephew and is expecting a child be it your first or second or third dont forget to look into cord blood banking and enroll now, your child's life could be saved.

I MADE IT

Again last night we decided to put both girls in Kaitlyn's room this time. I was the one to put the two girls to sleep since Ralph had to take a nap to prepare for his work early this morning. I was dreading again about sleeping in our bed since the last time i still ended up sleeping with the kids. Last night Ralph again ask me " hun, where are you going to sleep?" and i told him i was going to try and let them sleep by themselves again. I slept like crap last night, waking up every hour listening if Kaitlyn woke up or something. I even woke up Ralph an hour early for him to get to work, he ended up going back to sleep. Finally the alarm went off and Ralph got ready for work, when he was about to leave he gave me a kiss and i said to him " hun, i made it", meaning i slept in our bed the whole night, lol. I know its a weird sleeping arrangement bu this time I'm dead serious about separating myself from sleeping with Kaitlyn. I passed the first test and i hope i will pass the rest.

PLANNING IS A BREEZE

Marriage is the union of two individual souls that promise to love and to hold until death do them part. Planning a wedding is a big deal, it takes time, creativity,ingenuity and stress. Wedding can be overwhelming and without knowing it your already over your head with details.It specially stressful for everyone if you don't know what your doing let alone try to plan a wedding on your own. In today economy not all people can afford a wedding planner to take care of each details in the wedding be it small or big. Nowadays couples that are soon to be married can prepare ahead of time with fast wedding planning checklist.Its not only a checklist of what to get, to do and how to prepare but it also gives tips on how to have a beautiful wedding. If your planning your own or your friends wedding this is the most helpful tool that you can get for yourself or for them.

DOUBLE STANDARD - INFIDELITY/ ADULTERY

Have you noticed that we , the law and the world have double standards when it comes to certain things? Some are more acceptable and forgivable when it comes to the mistakes and choices that we make.

INFIDELITY * wikipedia * - Can be defined as any violation of the mutually agreed-upon rules of boundaries of a relationship, and is a breach of faith in an interpersonal relationship.

When a woman commits adultery she is branded with a scarlet letter proclaiming her sinful act but when it comes to a man committing adultery "its due to him just being a man". That is just plain preposterous and damn right wrong. A sin is a sin no matter how you look at it. Its wrong to make excuses just because of someones gender. What is so different from a woman committing adultery versus a man? Why do we as a society more accepting and more forgiving to a man committing adultery? What is your say in it?

GETTING IT DONE WITH THE RIGHT EQUIPMENT

Growing up in a small town had its advantages, everybody knows everybody. There was more clean fresh air, plenty of fresh fruits. Having a paternal grandparents that owns a construction and supply business was fun, we got to play with wood and we also had each dump trucks named after us, how cool was that. Now almost all my uncles and aunts on my dad's side of the family are involved in the constructions business and they are all successful at it. A couple of my cousins are engineers to help out there parents with the business. One summer i got to visit one of my uncles construction site and it was magnificent. You see this piece of land buzzing with activities from people hammering to men using heavy equipment to do the job. There was an equipment for digging, dump trucks and backhoes. It was a dangerous place for someone like me who had no idea how things worked. My uncle gave me a quick tour and showed me how each equipment works. He also stressed out the importance of getting hogg davis trailers
since they are the best in heavy equipment. And like my uncle said if you want a construction job done fast, clean, smooth and right getting the best heavy equipment is the key. Owning an equipment like these are easy since they have a rent-to-purchase plan with a wide range of equipments available to choose from. Working with the best will finish the job done in no time.

WHERE TO SLEEP

For almost a weeks i haven't had decent sleep. After doing my blog and drops at night Ralph usually challenges me to a game of golf or bowling on the Wii game. We would end up going to sleep after midnight which is not good since i have to wake up at 6:45 in the morning on school days. At first i was wondering why my eyes was always burning and it just felt dry. My eyes was telling me i needed it rest and not stay on the computer to long or sleeping late. We have also been trying to have both girls sleep in the same room. The other day was in Kaitlyn's room after Kayla woke up i just told her to sleep in baby sister's room and she did. Last night they slept in Kayla's room this time. Kayla woke up around 2 am and went in our room, Ralph had to put her back in her room with Kaitlyn.

I have been a mess for the last couple of days, i just found out I'm the one that needs to wean myself from sleeping with Kaitlyn. I couldn't sleep thinking she was not beside me. Those two days that both girls sleep together i ended up sleeping with them. Ralph is amused that I'm sleeping beside him in the bed and the next I'm gone. I'm a mother and i worry about Kaitlyn and i just get more sleep knowing they are beside me.

ACNE BE GONE

Having perfect flawless skin is every woman's desire. Women have tried to achieve flawless skin by using different products just to help reach that goal. As i teenager i was lucky to have clear skin but unfortunately for my cousin she had a bad case of Acne that covered almost all her face. I guess it was hereditary since her dad's side of the family tend to have break outs now and then but hers was much worse. Having acne affected her socially since she got so shy and inferior about her skin and before long it affected her self confidence. It was terrible for her entering the world of college life with her face covered in acne. Getting her aNatural Acne Treatment was one of the things we had looked into being that she also has sensitive skin. Finding the right treatment for ones skin is hard specially if you don't know what your skin type is. The key is to an Acne Treatments that works for your skin type and is easily applied to the face. A treatment that works well beyond the outer skin but also under the layers of the skin preventing further acne break outs from happening. My cousin would surely benefit from a treatment like that since she lives a hectic life and with her job as it tends to make her break outs from time to time. Controlling and preventing future breakouts is what ance treatment is all about.

CHEATS, HINTS, SECRETS, WALKTHROUGH

What have a i been doing lately aside from doing household stuff,watching Kaitlyn and blogging? I'm going crazy over Super Mario Galaxy Wii game, i can play with it the whole day! Gosh I'm really hooked into playing the game and i really want to finish and complete my mission and get all the stars. At first i really didn't know how it was played and i got frustrated telling Ralph he might as well return the game since its hard to play with. I tried it one more time and i finally got the hang of it. The game is very very fun, challenging and you have to be quick with your hands and eyes. Just yesterday i got so fed up loosing on this one part of the galaxy that i ended up searching on the net any walkthroughs, hints, cheats, secrets i could find and lo and behold i found this great site that even has a screen shot about the games. IGN.com has all the walkthrough that i need to finish my game and hints on how to defeat the enemies. I know its a little bit of cheating but i just want to finish the game. I do try to play the game and get killed over and over again, that when i look at the hints and finally get to pass. So if your playing the Super Mario Galaxy check it out