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Thursday, August 7, 2008



We've only just begun to live,White lace and promise

At 30 I am just starting my new life ,a journey of discovery of hope ,fears and anticipation. Marriage is not all white lace and promises ,Its a combined effort of two halves made to be whole. Some cracks maybe visible some not .Patching up a marriage as soon as trouble brews should be the priority.Rekindling the emotions that are dying or fading is the key. GOD ,faith and hope will be the answer.

A kiss for luck and we're on our way.

And yes, We've just begun.

He uses our kisses and hugs like a talisman every time he steps out the door and enters another,the door of police enforcement.This will not guarantee his safety but gives US strength to face each new day that breaks.

Before the rising sun we fly,So many roads to choose

We start out walking and learn to run.

We choose the road of marriage and parenthood. A road filled with trust in our selves and each other. A road you might say that is travelled by most people. Some have successfully ended the journey together stronger and closer, some have broken free from the once that was whole. Its more that just a hurdle of pain,failure and defeat, but also an open space for love,trust,faith and hope. We started out as just the three of US. My husband and I and his daughter. The we came into full circle the day my first child was born.

And yes, We've just begun.

Sharing horizons that are new to us,Watching the signs along the way,

Talking it over just the two of us,

Working together day to day Together.

And when the evening comes we smile,So much of life ahead

We'll find a place where there's room to grow,

Growing together as couple and as parents have been enlightening. It was like i have been woken up from a deep slumber of sleep that once was my life. At the end of the day its just going to be You and I holding each others hand and cheering each other up along the way ,we will grow were there will be more room for love and each other.

And yes, We've just begun.

and yes,this is just the start of something great much more than you and I. Its the beginning of another life. A life we can only hope our children will have. Someday we will have peace in our hearts that in years to come we will be crossing what we have began You and I will reach the end together with our Talisman



Anonymous said...

Welcome to the blogging world! I love this song that you chose Lods. And with every explanation, you gave us a window on how close you and Ralph are and how much closer you have become upon the arrival of Kaitlyn. continue on supporting each other.

Anonymous said...

I can't imagine I am reading the blog of my classmate who was once "ki-at and sabaan". Now you are all responsible and selfless. See what love can do.

mommy Orkid Belle said...

My gosh! It made me sing while reading this. Because this is one of my fave songs. Emote time!

I love reading this blog mommy Lods. Filled with emotions and how life is. Ain't it amazing though how our lives have changed? So many things to look up to and are ahead of us. It is so nice to know though to be able to share those with the ones we love, our Family!God Bless mommy Lods.. I wanna say I love the headshot you have with your family. :)

LODS said...

hi jacy ,i wouldnt have been able to do it without your help..i owe you big time..

i picked the song coz it dscribes me and ralph to a T.and with each passing day i hope to enjoy eac one of it with him and my kids..

LODS said...

ror! thanks ha,thats very very touching.i even wonder myself how much i have changed.well,im still the chatterbox but i have grown a lot.being a mommy does that to you,lol

LODS said...

mommy adin, as for you i can just picture you out singing while reading this, have a great voice and i envy you for that kay sus i croak like a frog,hehehe..and soon enough your lives are going to change for the best with the arrival of baby HF.have a safe delivery mommy!


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