NO TO PAIN

Saw Ralph's nephew today. He was so excited to tell me about his new tattoo. He turned 16 this year and his mom promised him that he could get a tattoo for his birthday. Since it was still early in the morning I forgot to take a look at his new tattoo. I don't know about you guys but I'm not into tattoos at all. Sure they are beautiful and artistic. You can say that its just not me. Getting a tattoo is marking your skin forever. I just can't see myself getting one and after a few years going bonkers trying to remove tattoos that I got done. Besides, when you get older tattoos don't look the same. The other reason why I would not get one is my low tolerance for pain. I am scared of pain and would do anything to avoid feeling that. I have nothing against people who get tattoos as its their way of expressing themselves.

LOOKING LIKE THAT

See that mug shot up and center? That's me on my very very good day. What does very good day mean, when I at least blow dry my hair, dress up with jeans and a nice shirt and do a little bit of make up. My friends tell me that I am pretty, beautiful but they don't know that I don't look like that everyday. That picture is far from the truth. When I am at home I am in sweats and no make up at all and hair standing on ends. I do make it a point to look presentable when I am out. I know I should look more like that for my husband. Looking like that takes time and I don't have the luxury of time on my hands. What I did notice on my face is that I really do have pronounce wrinkles on the side of my eyes. It's high time that I find an anti wrinkle cream that's not to expensive. I am so cheap that I hardly spend anything for myself. I no longer have that youthful glow, I don't think I can still glow, lol. Kidding aside, I do take care of myself from time to time. It's also important to do that for ourselves. Recharges our batteries and make us feel that we also need attention.

DO YOU FEEL THE PRESSURE?

Whatever happened to our perception of beauty? Some say that "beauty is in the eye of the beholder". If that is the case why do we put so much stress on what size we are. Weight is a major issue when the topic of conversation is beauty. In society today, slender and skinny women are considered beautiful and stunning. What about the full figured and heavy set women? Women kill themselves over trying to be beautiful in the wrong sense. They go on crazy diets, go one all natural diet pills,take weight loss pills, fat burners and go on fanatic exercise marathon. Some develop eating disorders due to to much pressure. Women are pressured to look beautiful and slimmer. Who is at fault here? Society or ourselves? I do care about how I look. I have good days, okey days and very bad days.

HER SUNSHINE

This was the sight that greeted us when we got home from our disastrous date. I wondered why Kaitlyn didn't come rushing when I opened the door. Maybe she didn't hear us with the T.V. blaring. We tiptoed into the family room and found her in her Mima's arms fast asleep. Let me tell you how much that means to my MIL. She is Kaitlyn's biggest fan and just thinks the world of her. She cherishes the time when its just her and Kaitlyn. It was still early, we were surprise that she already fells asleep. That's what happens when she takes no naps in the afternoon anymore. She sleeps faster and earlier at night.

Sound good but, when its a weekend you want to sleep in. I can't do that. I do try to sleep in but when your children is trained to wake up early they will wake up early no matter how late or how early they fall asleep. I am not a morning person, I am racoon looking eyes. If you know how to remove dark circles please do share it with me. Still, they do try to let me sleep in. When you have kids its hard, they can't stay quiet and relax for a long time. So much energy in such little bodies.

STILL BATTLING WITH THE BULGE

Have you noticed how much commercials and advertisement put so much effort is selling weight loss products and equipment. So many out in the market that choosing one is harder than you may think. I have actually sat down and watch infomercials on television and found it so fascinating. Most of the spokes person are buff, well tones and so convincing. Lipofuze was one product that I was so tempted to try. But does does lipofuze work?. Its suppose to be the number one in fat burner that helps you shed 10 lbs in 7 days. If I wasn't trying to get pregnant I would certainly try to see what the fuss was all about. As for the reviews online it seems to work pretty good. Loosing weight is a whole lot harder specially when your older. Gaining is as easy as breathing but loosing it is as hard as climbing the highest peak. It takes will, stamina and motivation to keep going. I have none of those for now but I am working on motivation, lol.

RECIPE MADNESS

I have been bitten by the cooking bug once again. Well I do get the bug to bake from time to time. I must admit, I am not organize when it comes to my recipes and everything. I have papers and papers of recipe and its all mixed together. Finding a recipe is like mission impossible, I have to sift through a lot of papers and some I don't even know what recipe its for. I have had enough of my paper recipe clutter. When I was watching Amazing Cakes I saw that most of the bakers had a wonderful presentation covers for recipes. I want to have that for me as well. To be able to do my best and improve my baking technique I have to start with organization and presentation. This way when I am ready to bake all I have to do is get my recipe and flip through for whats baking.

A DATE TO REMEMBER

Romantic night out turned out to be so disastrous. Ralph and I had been looking forward to our date last Saturday, it was suppose to be an advance celebration for our 4th wedding anniversary. Well the day started out real smooth. I got dressed up and even did my make-up extra special. Kaitlyn was behaved and even gave both Ralph and I a kiss before we left and said she will miss us. I should have known that we have always had worse luck when it comes to planning dates.

Our date turned disastrous when Ralph found the wrong restaurant, lol. We just burst out laughing. We continued driving to find the right restaurant which took a little while. When we finally found it and got in, we were shocked to find out how long the wait was going to be. Guess how long? The wait was 2 1/2 hours to be seated. Ralph and I just turned around and went out. Red Lobster was just across Firbirds we went to see if it was also swamped and it was. Minimum wait was 30 min. After hearing that we just hightailed on to the road. We decided to just eat at our favorite Chinese buffet but Ralph wanted to see if Texas Roadhouse and Lone Star. Both places were also swamped. But before the end of the night we finally found a place where we didn't have to wait at all. And that story is for another time. Our date may have turned out to be a disaster but it was a day worth remembering. Ralph and I laughed so much and just had a good time in spite of everything.

BIG DATE

In a few hours hubby and I will go on a big date. Our wedding anniversary is on Valentines day, we opted to celebrate the day in advance. A good friend of our gave us a gift card for the Firebirds Wood Fire Grill as a thank you for watching her son. She didn't have to do that but she insisted to show much my help and friendship is appreciated. Ralph and I have been looking forward to our date since January. I am looking forward to dressing up a bit, well its not to formal but when I say dressing up it means being out of sweats and actually wearing a dress pant and a dressy top,lol. The review I read online about the restaurant seems promising. I am hoping that both of us will enjoy the food. Kayla is at her moms and my MIL is watching Kaitlyn for the night. Lets hope to a smooth and romantic night out with the hubby.

PAYING IT OFF

Taxes are finally done, the next thing to do is wait for the refund. This year our goal is to pay off as much of our debts as we can. I have 3 credit cards already and I am looking forward to paying off all the balance so we won't have to make monthly payments anymore. Ralph is also paying off his credit cards and hopefully his credit history will improve. As for mine I know that my credit is excellent and we plan on keeping it that way. But speaking of credit card I told Ralph and I wanted to get another credit card, one that has reward cards where you get to buy something with your points earned. Ralph has that on his credit cards but I am not so sure about mine. I think mine has them as well I will just have to call to find out more. Our refund may not be as much as two years ago but its enough to help with our finances. We just need to stick to our plans and pay off as much as we can and try not to use the credit card, only for emergencies.

WILL THINGS CHANGE

America, land of the milk and honey, land of opportunity. For the past years people around the world have been struggling. Many have lost homes, cars, lands and jobs. With recession still being felt by every company, jobs are hard to come by. I know a lot of people that have lost jobs or have a hard time landing one. Its not just enough that you have experience in the job your applying for, companies now are looking for people with degrees. With technology and the world wide web on our side getting a degree is as easy as going online. My BIL Angelo wants to start a small business and he is looking at online business degrees that will one day help him with his business if it ever pushes through. I am rooting for him. I just hope that the economy will at least start to change for the better. Everybody is hurting and all we have to do is work with what we have and make the best. And it doesn't hurt to get an a degree like education,online business degrees, online IT degree, the important thing is that education will give an advantage. I believe that with good education and excellent work ethics one can easily find a good paying job.

STONEY SMILE

Meet Mr. Stone Smile Frost, our Snowman. I have been very lazy about updating my blog. I have just been preoccupied with trying to finish the latest television series I have been hooked on. Ralph and the kids made this snow man a few days after the latest winter storm that passed. I took a picture of the snowman before Ralph even finished it. Well I though it was already finished so I went inside where it was warm. Lo and behold, he took one of my hat, scarf and completed Mr. Stone Smile Frost. I totally forgot to take a picture. The kids were ecstatic about the snowman and were the ones who helped daddy dig up stones for the snowman's smile and buttons. This was the very first full size snowman Ralph has ever made since we have been living here..It was also the only snowman in our street, lol. With the rain, sleet and sunshine Mr. Frost didn't last long but the chance for the girls to bond with daddy will last for a lifetime. My kids are so lucky to have such a devoted and loving father. Maybe on the next snow storm we will have a make a girlfriend for Mr. Frost so he won't be lonely outside guarding out house.

9 TIMES IS THE CHARM

Have you heard of the saying "Always the bridesmaid but never the bride?". I almost believed that for the reason that I was a bridesmaid for the longest time. I was a bridesmaid 9 times and 3 out of those times I caught the brides bouquet. After my 9th time as a bridesmaid it became a family joke that I can start my own bridesmaid boutique due to all the dresses I have in my closet. I was fortunate enough to have family and friends who wanted me to be a part of the bridal entourage. Like the movie "27 Dresses" I had about 5 bridesmaid dresses in my closet and I loved wearing all of them. I may not have looked as breathtaking as the bride but my dresses were made to fit me. So I guess 9th time is the charm, I am not married for 4 years this coming Valentines to the love of my life. Since I was a bridesmaid so many time it makes me wonder if my kids are going to take after me, lol. It will be great in a way so my kids don't get married early or I won't see my girls walking down the aisle. We will have to leave it to destiny to unfold itself.

CAPS OFF

Staying in touch with family no matter what part of the world they live is soothing to me. I was just chatting with my favorite cousin on my Iphone. I had to ask her if she was going home to Cebu to attend her sisters graduation. I can't believe that the little girl I used to baby sit and play with is graduating from high school and will soon be starting a new phase in her life. I actually have two young ladies to applaud, one is my cousin Margaret and the other one is Ralph's niece Kristen who are both graduating from high school this year. I want to do something special for both of them. Pear Tree Greetings has the perfect graduation cards that tells a story or show a picture of how they have changed over the years.
My favorite among the graduation cards I got from Pear Tree Greetings is the one in front. The great thing about their greeting cards is the way you can personalize the card and put pictures of them starting from an early school age until the present and where they finally graduate high school. Since I don't have access to any of my cousins pictures I know her sister does. Being able to do all of this online is a cinch, her older sister can do it with her. I know Margaret will love the idea and she can choose all the picture she wants on it. She can even put her favorite quote and anything special on her invitation. This is one of the ways that she can share the good news of her graduation and make it personal. I wish I would be there this coming March to witness her accepting her diploma and starting another stage in her young life.

IT'S IN THE BONES

Its good to write again. To be in front of a computer and not just to satisfy my latest addiction. I am totally addicted to watching a series of shows. I have just finished watching Bones. From season 1 to the latest season now. I already knew about the show even back in the Philippines. My sister was really the one who started watching it first. I clearly remember which episode that was, It was when they got quarantined inside the lab just before Christmas. I so love the show. The characters are all so interesting and thrilling. The show in itself is full of humor, thrills and a lot in between. Have you seen that show? I got hooked and I stayed glued to my laptop whenever I could to finish watching my show. I am so totally addicted to watching series shows and that is my latest vice. That's the reason why I have been absent for a little while. My vice is, If I get hooked on something I don't stop until I am totally satisfied that I did good or that I finished it till the end.

AND SO IT BEGINS

I took this yesterday night at beginning of the winter storm we were going to get. This was around 10 p.m. when I let our dog Sunny out for the night. As soon as I saw the snow I knew that the kids would have no school the next day. I just stood by the door going to the backyard and just let the sight sink in. I love when it snows, it is seems so peaceful, clean and quiet. Until now I am amaze about the snow, the changing of the weather. When we woke up the kids immediately went to look out the window to check how much snow we got. A lot of screaming with oohhhs and ahhhhs and asking me when they could go out and play. Knowing me, they knew that they had to be extra behave so they can go out to play. Even though it was cold I ventured out and played with my kids.